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Tobey Maguire and Jennifer Meyer, who are parents to a 9-month-old daughter, have gotten married in Hawaii, PEOPLE has confirmed.

Maguire, 32, and Meyer, 30, exchanged vows Monday in a sunset ceremony in Kona in front of a small group of family and friends, including Leonardo DiCaprio.

The couple, who met in early 2003 and welcomed daughter Ruby in November, have kept their longterm romance fairly low profile.

“They are similar because they are very guarded around people they don’t know,” a friend of Meyer, the daughter of Vivendi Universal Entertainment CEO Ron Meyer, told PEOPLE in 2003.

Earlier this year, the Spider-Man star told reporters that he “loves being a dad.”

And his costar Bryce Dallas Howard praised both Maguire and Meyer for their parenting skills. “[Jennifer Meyer] is just an incredibly mindful parent. I mean, they both are,” said Howard.

Maguire, who has admitted to having a rocky childhood, has said that settling down and finding stability are important to him. “Growing up the way I did, I had a very serious ambition to make some money, to have some security and comfort in my life,” the star told Parade in April.

And becoming a father has led him to think about putting down roots outside of Hollywood, he said. “I’m at that stage where I have to start thinking about where I want Ruby to grow up and go to school … Even though L.A. is pretty laid-back, maybe it would be a good idea to try a different, less ambitious kind of atmosphere.”

The couple was divorced in 2017.